#E
Why are women subjected to eve teasing?
Because:
There is no Adam teasing.
Fear of being attacked if defended.
Adam Teasing
It is common to see boys gathered in gangs and cat calling a girl or shouting out names of boys coupling with her but never has even one woman gang done that? Why? Because that's not the ritual.
Come on, sacred souls, bring it up that women are 'pure’ souls and must not ape men. Really? If launching a counter attack on men's misbehaviour devilish, it is a pride to form a devil community. Thus was feminism born to slash out the bull shit that male chauvinism has infected.
So, must feminism be spread to guard the dignity of women? If using the weapon of pulling down someone to show their superiority and thereby nullifying the arrogance of cheap men feminism, it is a LOUD yes.
Every woman must hold this as a virtue:
You treat me right, you will get treated better. You treat me bad, oh forget about worse, you are screwed up!
The virtue is not vengeance, but a favour that you do for womanhood to teach misbehaving cheapos a lesson and never weigh women too weak to handle his insensitivity.
Fear of being attacked if defended
Been there, done that. I've let third rated men penetrate my dignity by staying silent. In my college days, I was 'forever’ Eve teased but I kept lying to myself that staying silent would resolve the issue. Sadly, not once did it work.
I studied IT and the ECE boys used to happily cat call me just because I had a formal online chat with a student in their class. I was expected to avoid passing through their classroom even when I wanted to pee in the loo right after their class. But it wasn't my problem to take the shortest and convenient route to the toilet and never did I stop passing. So did their eve teasing.
When I asked my classmate Bala for help, his reply came bang on my ego, 'Keep calm coz patience is a virtue for women. You can't do anything than remain silent.’ I said, 'Fuck you, let me start my attack and let the miscreants keep calm and work out their patience virtue.’
I decided to change my strategy and complained just once to my principal with a pressure on him that already it is reported to the management and..? And it worked! The next day, with all pride I passed through the ECE classroom and voila, not one voice did I hear from them!
From this, I learnt change will never happen until you demanded it. Rape is also similar. A girl would usually be too scared for counter attack lest it intensifies the predator’s anger. But trust me, people think of you the way you do. His anxiety and fear would be no less than the victim’s.
I know a friend who was dragged by two naked men, one holding her and another lying down and assaulted. All she did was kick hard the man who captured her on his balls and run away. I was impressed and grateful for her narrow escape!
Remember this ladies, nobody is too weak or inferior to be respected. So never give up on your self respect by allowing shit happen to you. It's not okay to be pulled down. Lets unite and defend as one army against eve teasing!